Life is full of vicissitudes. Everybody has to face difficulties, and most people broke whereas some people fight back and shine.
A new day creates new challenges that you have to face. Challenges make you strong if you have the courage to fight back. Most people argue, “Why the problems are hitting me?”
It’s because life wants you to achieve more, you deserve more. Here, in this post, you’ll discover the lessons I have learned from my life until now.
You can relate most of the points with your life experiences. So let’s start.
Right people stay forever no matter what happens
Don’t beg people to stay in your life. Let them go because they don’t deserve you. The right people will find you and stay with you forever.
The real people will care for even if you don’t care for them. For instance, I have just three friends, and we rarely talk to each other over the phone, we have social profiles, however, we didn’t waste our time chatting.
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In our school days, we were great friends. After completing the school our roads diverged to a different path. But the real fact is that we are still friends because the fire of friendship is still burning in our hearts.
Around 8 months ago, I have talked to my friends, and until now I didn’t receive any call, because we are so much busy building our empire.
I have seen many people who blindly trust and make friends with the wrong people, who just use them. My friends just stay away from such people, because they add no value to your life instead, they ruin it. Let’s discuss deeply in the next point.
Recommended book: When Bad Things Happen to Good People
Don’t ruin your life for fake people
There are two types of people in the world.
- Who are fake and use others
- Who are loyal and teaches us good things.
However, most people don’t know how to differentiate between them, and unluckily they trust upon fake people.
Fake people have the following characteristics
- They remember you when they’ll need you.
- They use your products to save money.
- They may fight on small things.
- They try to misunderstanding between you and your loved ones.
- They show themselves as a real, loyal and best friend.
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Be aware of such people because they can ruin your personal life. On the other hand, real people have the following qualities:
- They teach us good things.
- Never fight with us.
- They always maintain good relationships
- Never lie to you
- Always finds a way to make you happy
- They bear all your nonsense activities without getting tired
Don’t ever let real people go, because they are worth more than gold and diamond.
Be consistent in life
Success comes from consistency. I have experienced it; however, not everything was good in the beginning. I was a lazy kind of person who just spends his time mostly watching TV and just thinking about success.
However, gradually I realized that success doesn’t come from just sitting on the sofa and doing nothing. If I want to change my life, I have to work for it.
For that, I started listening to podcasts and inspirational videos. I have listened summaries of some good books related to entrepreneurship and life skills.
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Those summaries and podcasts have changed the way of my thinking and then I started to work hard (smartly) on my dreams.
It’s a great lesson you should apply to your life. Be consistent in life and success will automatically come to you.
However, to be consistent in life you have to stay away from the following distractions:
- Smartphone if you don’t need it
- Bad and small-minded people
- Most of all, you should stay away from entertainment. It’s a great time-eater.
- Your friends, if they don’t have any productive work to do.
- Stop spending unnecessary time outside.
Dreaming is important because it gives you the right path to achieve success
Dreaming is important not because it gives pleasure but it sometimes gives the ways and ideas to achieve success.
The bigger your dreams, the more ideas your brain is likely to generate. To be honest, I have dreams and I am working consistently on it. I prefer late night and early morning because I don’t want to be average.
In my opinion, working hard smartly is very important, because in order to be successful you first need to be worthy of it.
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You get what you work for
As we have discussed above dreams just give directions, however, it’s our responsibility to work for it. You get what you work for it has been rightly said. Your life is your responsibility and no one is going to take it for you.
You’re young with potential energy give yourself a good direction. How do you earn money? Simply by working in an office.
One more principal you can apply in your life that is imagination. Let’s understand it in a simple way.
Work for the thing you want in your life and imagine for it just before you sleep. It will increase the overall speed of the work. Your brain starts to believe that you can achieve it easily.
Furthermore, it increases your confidence to make things happen. Anyone can get everything if he/she wanted to.
Laziness and procrastination will give temporary pleasure, but eventually, you have to work hard and there’s no shortcut to success.
Recommended book: Switch: How to Change Things When Change Is Hard
Don’t get too close to someone
People who are close to us (except family members) often become the reason for heartbreak and sadness. Thus, you should never get too close to anyone until they’re your family members.
I haven’t gone through any heartbreak, I have learned it from others’ mistakes. However, I’m very much close to my laptop and my work, if I ever get detached from them, I couldn’t bear it at all. I love my laptop and my work.
It’s very much fun to write blog posts and sharing them with people.
Goal-oriented people never went through any heartbreak, the reason is, they are dedicated to their goals and no one can distract them from their path.
The saddest thing is that young boys and girls are going in the wrong direction. They are following the path of fashion and show off.
As elders, it’s our duty to give them the right direction or it would be late when they’ll realize that fashion and show off don’t create a fortune.
Do not hold anything for a longer time
Do not hold anything for a longer time, because it will tend to hurt you. Let things go and don’t worry about it.
Your life is in your hands, control it, and give direction to it. Moreover, you should allow fake people to get out of your life. They may think that you need them; however, they don’t know that legends like you don’t need anyone.
You’re alone enough to carry out things, thus, let everything go in their own way and do your work.
Recommended book: The Book of Joy: Lasting Happiness in a Changing World
I have learned the above things in my life until now, however, I am still learning. Each day I have to face new challenges, also I kept learning new and innovative things.
I think most of you may have related the above point with your life experiences.
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