This is one of the most searched topics on the internet. Why the search volume is so large? It’s because we’re surrounded by many fake people and friends, who just know how to get their work done. Do you want to get rid of fake friends?
Making friends is a good habit but in this world, you can’t blindly trust anyone. You have to be very careful while choosing your friends because many of them mean to ditch you.
They don’t care for anyone’s feelings. If you have accidentally made fake friends and looking for the best ways to get rid of them, then this post will help you.
So, how to get rid of fake friends and people? Before we discuss the ways, let’s know the signs of a fake friend.
What are the signs of a fake friend?
There are many ways to spot a fake friend. If you have a fake friend, he/she must have the following signs. Read all the points carefully to get a clear view and understanding.
It’s important to know exactly who are your fake friends because I don’t think that you want to lose your genuine friends. Keep good relationship with genuine friends because they are hard to find.
A fake friend has the following characteristics:
- He gets in touch when he needs you
- He talks behind your back
- Talks rarely but rudely when he has no work with you
- Often try to take you down
- Never stands with you
- Do not support you and feel jealous
- Take advantage of you
- Never help you when needed
- Often make an excuse when asked for help
- His mood changes as per his needs
Read this: 6 ways to find fake friends
Ways to get rid of fake friends and fake people?
The following are powerful ways to get rid of fake friends and fake people. Read them carefully until the end.
Stop the advantage they are receiving from you
Fake friends often take advantage of you. These advantages may include anything such as copying your work, stealing your ideas and more.
If you want to get rid of them, please stop any advantage they’re receiving from you. When fake friends will not get an advantage they’ll automatically maintain distance from you.
I know you are a genuine person who respects the feelings of others. You may sometimes find it difficult to say “No” to people.
But, my friend if he/she is fake then why are you getting emotional. Anyway, feelings are temporary. It’s time to open your eyes or you’ll end up nowhere in life.
Extra: Copying your work and stealing your ideas doesn’t mean he can work as efficiently as you can.
Recommended book: Be Confident in Who You Are
Don’t hang out together
The best way to get rid of fake friends is to stay away from them as much as possible. How can you do that? It’s easy don’t go for a walk together, don’ t sit together and more. Give them any excuse if they force you to join.
Spending time with people makes a relationship stronger. But, I don’t think you want to surround yourself with fake friends.
You know your friends better. Why don’t you spend time with genuine friends? Get together and enjoy it.
Read this: Is it possible to be alone and happy?
Avoid eye contact while talking to them
Having direct eye contact with the opposite person shows your interest in them. People may get influence from you. But here the situation is something different.
You are trying to get rid of fake friends. So, what should you do?
Don’t have direct eye contact while talking to them. How would you talk to them without having eye contact? It’s pretty simple, be busy while talking to them.
In this way, they won’t be interested in you anymore and the conversation will end up within a few minutes. Soon, they’ll realize that you’re no more interested in them and they’ll leave you.
One more advice from me: Don’t start the conversation first. Avoid any conversation as much as possible.
Stay away from fake people as much as possible. It is one of the best ways to end up any relationship. You have to stop being social with your fake friends.
You don’t need to put much effort into it. Psychology says, “People don’t like those who aren’t social and see them as inferior.” You can use this psychology to get rid of your fake friend.
Just keep a distance from them and the rest will happen involuntarily.
This point indirectly means that you won’t make yourself easily available to everyone because they’ll respect you less and they’ll think that you have much free time for them. Then no one can protect you from being used.
Take advice from elders
Yes, elders will help you to get rid of fake friends and people. They will tell you many unique ways that work best to get rid of fake friends.
Now day’s people didn’t care for old and elder people. Respect for them is disappearing. It shouldn’t happen, we should respect our elders.
They are experienced people who can help in almost any matter that you aren’t able to solve.
Your elders will have more ways than stated in this blog post, instead of reading this post, visit and talk to your elder, and seek more unique and powerful ways to get rid of fake friends.
In the end, I would like to conclude that you should avoid negative and fake people since starting then you’ll don’t need an article to get rid of them.
It’s easy you just need to develop a better understanding of fake and negative people, you have to learn the skill to spot the fake people in the crowd.
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