We all know that the world has changed a lot, our environment, animals and even our people. Most people have evolved themselves into bad and negative ones, and others are searching for good and gentle people.

Why don’t we all become the gentleman ourselves, I think the world will change a lot. How to be a gentleman? This is the core topic of this article.

I’m going to tell you the 4 ways on how to be a gentleman and make people and you happy. It costs nothing to be good and kind to everyone.

Keep a smile on your face

woman smiling how to be a gentleman

Everyone likes happy people and wanted to be treated well. Keeping a smile on your face makes you a gentleman. In fact, people will love you and they’ll try to engage with you.

The first impression is the last impression. So, don’t lose your respect with a gloomy face. Whether you’re attending a party or going to your office, always have a smile on your face.

Why is it important to have a smile on your face?

  1. It makes people feel comfortable with you.
  2. People will love you.
  3. They’ll seek you for advice.
  4. They’ll like to spend time with you

Also read: what are the best ways to get inner peace?

Be a man of value

Increase your value instead of increasing your wealth. I’m not against earning money, instead, I’m encouraging you to increase your value.

A man of value is more respectable than the rest of the people. Rich people are rich because they provide value and make people’s life easy and comfortable.

increase your value

One thing that makes a person more valuable is his or her silence. In other words, a person who says when it’s needed to gain more value for their words and people around love to listen to them.

How to increase your value?

The following points will help you to increase your value.

  1. Learn more and more. See, there’s a difference between study and learning. Study focus chiefly on exams whereas learning focuses on improving skill and making your life comfortable.
  2. Learn to be silent and speak when it’s necessary. It’s a sign of a wise man.
  3. Be effective in communication and share knowledge in such a manner that a child can understand your words.
  4. Meet people like you and make personal relationships with them, because you need people who support you.
  5. A person is well known for its behavior, learn how to behave in public, with friends, and parents.

Recommended book:
Self Aware Skills: How to Increase your Impact, Value
, and Happiness at Work

Be good to your people

Most people behave naturally in public but they are very rude o their own people. Be good to your people because they care for you.

A stranger can never be yours, they may be good but they can’t behave like your people.

A gentleman behaves equally with everybody he met and knows. If you can’t be true and helpful to your loved ones, then there are no chances that you’ll ever become a good man.

Moreover, you have to help your people in their bad times. Helping people are understood as a gentleman. See, I’m not forcing you to do that, it must generate from your heart.

If you feel pleasure while helping others then you’re a gentleman and you don’t need to prove it to anyone.

Recommended book: How to Be a Gentleman Revised and Expanded: A Timely Guide to Timeless Manners (The GentleManners Series)

Don’t be angry on small kinds of stuff

be happy how to be a gentleman

Being angry with silly things is a sign of foolishness. Gentle people stay calm in every situation. You don’t have to get angry with small kinds of stuff.

You have to rewire your mind, in order to stay calm in any situation. Any situation doesn’t mean that you won’t raise your voice against the wrong things.

It means that you should have faith in yourself that, yes my bad time will slip away soon.

See, we are humans, and we consider ourselves powerful than any other species. But, if we’re doing wrong things, then we aren’t powerful instead we’re a fool.

Moreover, anger is harmful to your health; never sacrifice your health for small kinds of stuff.

Recommended book: Be Happy: 35 Powerful Methods for Personal Growth & Well-Being

Final words

Being good to everyone gives pleasure. It’s a feeling that can’t be expressed in words. Don’t search for gentle people, be the one and people will search for you.

These 4 are the best known ways to be a gentleman. However, you have to work very hard in order to control your mind and behavior.

See, nothing can happen in a day, but something can be started in a day.

Be gentle and calm and spread love everywhere.

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Hi, I'm Newtan. I write self-help posts that are mostly related to your life. I share my real-life experience and gives advice on how you can change your life. I hope you'll enjoy.


Jonathan E. Caswell · January 25, 2020 at 4:17 am

You touched on all four points very well!

    Newtan · January 25, 2020 at 12:54 pm

    Thank you so much. Have a great day.

  • KRITIKA · December 27, 2019 at 2:24 am

    Hope the guys who require the most read them. 🙂 Nice advice 🙂
    Have a great day 🙂

      Newtan · December 27, 2019 at 2:27 am

      Thank you. Have a nice day to you too. 🤗

  • SaaniaSparkle 🧚🏻‍♀️ · December 2, 2019 at 3:00 pm

    Love the points 😇

      Newtan · December 2, 2019 at 3:07 pm

      Hi, Saania
      How are you?
      I’m glad you like the points.

    Francis Ashis · December 2, 2019 at 1:11 am

    Excellent tips ,I really like the tips.Thanks a lot for sharing. 🌹🙏

      Newtan · December 2, 2019 at 2:30 pm

      Hello, Francis
      I’m glad you find it useful.
      Thanks for the visit.
      Have a great day.

    Susan Dyer · December 1, 2019 at 11:58 pm

    Excellent advice!👍

      Newtan · December 2, 2019 at 2:28 pm

      Hi, Susan
      Thanks for reading this article.
      I’m glad you like it.
      Have a great day.

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