Stop thinking about them it’s simple as that. However, you need to control your brain and teach him “How not to worry about what people think?”
People have two-job first one they do to earn a living and second one they do to make people feel inferior, however, they’re not paid for that. So, why they do it?
It’s because they don’t want you to succeed in life. Moreover, they can’t see you doing more than them.
Make sure that you don’t care about what people think and do. Let’s discuss some important points that could help both of us to deal with the problem.
Don’t make personal relationships with them
Before, you trust people make sure that you know them very well. In my opinion, you should never reveal your secrets to people who don’t belong to your family. They may be your close friends, classmates, colleagues, etc.
Never make a personal relationship with people who try to pull you down.
What does personal relation mean?
It simply means that people with personal relations share almost everything, even their secrets. They are involved in family affairs, parties. In simple words, they know almost everything about you.
There are many snakes in the sleeves. You should be aware of them, what they think of you doesn’t matter a lot, however, you shouldn’t tell them any of your secrets and never ever make personal relationships with them.
What kinds of people are good to have a personal relationship with them?
- Make personal relationships with people who encourage you.
- People who never try to pull you down.
- People who share their feelings with you.
- Kind and gentle people
- Goal-oriented people as they’ll help you to achieve your goals.
- People who help you without any expectations.
In return, you too should be loyal to them, because such people are rare and precious in the world. However, I’m again suggesting you to not reveal your secrets to anyone.
You should tell people what they should know.
Smile and move on
It’s a master point when people say anything rude about you just give them a smile and move on. Your smile will burn them. Hahaha…!
Sorry for laughing. However, this is the best way to shut their mouths. It would lay a reverse impact on their life. They’ll feel guilty and will never try to pull you down.
Newtan, why should I smile they make me angry?
My dear friend, anger is harmful to you. Moreover, your anger will give them one more chance to pull you down. Stay calm and let them do their job and you do your job.
You need to control your anger, it can be possible only if you learn to ignore people and I think this article will help you -> Why ignore people who didn’t add value to your life?
Recommended book: How to Win Friends and Influence People in the Digital Age
Enjoy yourself and make them jealous
Learn to enjoy yourself. It will make your haters jealous. When they’ll see you happy, they couldn’t bear it.
Nowadays, people have become heartless, they feel jealous of others’ progress. However, you shouldn’t pay attention to them. Your life is different from them.
I know it’s hard to focus on work because these people are always around you, in your mind.
Related post: Is it possible to be alone and happy?
How can you get rid of people mentally?
- The best way is to divert your mind.
- You can focus on your achievements.
- You can make your work joyful.
- Workaround real friends.
- Another way is to tell everything to your parents it would give you relief.
- Focus on something that gives you pleasure.
- Moreover, you can play Video games, to relief yourself.
If these points are not enough then you need this article -> What are the best ways to make your brain stronger?
They are kids
They are kids it’s simple as that and mature people like you don’t hurt kids. Kids do all the crazy things and people like them.
Mature people like you encourage others and never pull anyone down; this is the best way to ignore what people think about you. Forgive those kids and enjoy your life. Haha…
Focus on your work
I have told this a thousand times that your work is more important than what others think. What they do is none of your business. Focus on your work and improve yourself.
They want to see you down, don’t give them this pleasure. You may have heard “Success is the best revenge” but success comes from hard work.
Keep your mouth shut and let your brain works. You should aim for high because when you do it, your brain gets to it and makes you successful.
How can I focus on my work?
There are thousands of articles available on the internet on this topic. However, I have explained in simple and short sentences.
- Remove any kind of distraction such as people, smartphones, music, etc.
- Keep telling your brain about the work.
- Take a 10-minute rest between work hours.
- Stick your goal in the bold letter, in your front.
- If possible, keep revising your goals in your mind.
- Be accountable to someone who cares for you and gave him or her reports of your daily progress. It will give you a feeling of responsibility.
Remember, motivation to work comes from inside, thus whenever it becomes possible introspects and check where you need to improve.
Don’t think about what people think, because it’s not your job. You’re here to accomplish your goals. Don’t let small-minded people ruin your life.
See, nothing could harm you and your dreams until you allow them. Make sure you stay away from bad people and don’t give your life’s control in their hands.
Life will not give you another chance. All you got is now, in which you can either improve or spoil yourself the choice is yours.
However, I know you’re a goal-oriented person, and not going to give up early.
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